Romy Schirrmeister

I absolutely love
contributing to the
growth and success of individuals through
coaching.

My Story

I completed a ICF accredited coaching certification course at the New Zealand Institute of Coaching in 2021. It came with a new insight. Rather than simply handing out generic advice, I have come to value the importance of active listening and being present. 

I started my career as a political advisor in 2008. I learnt how important trust is for meaningful conversations while working for an MP in the German Parliament. Six years later I became a team leader at a consultancy firm. My academic background of politics and languages differed to that of my colleagues and I discovered the importance of using my intuition when working with people. In 2016, I was lucky to have been given the opportunity to work and live abroad. Now, with a family, this has become a fully-fledged adventure with many ups, and a few downs. Settling in a new country was tough in the beginning and small things like picking up the phone to make a doctor’s appointment suddenly turned out to be a challenge. It took me a while to feel comfortable communicating in English, and it became even clearer to me how useful observation is for understanding situations. 

Personally, I find joy in spending time with my family and my friends. I am interested in other people’s stories and like to ask questions. And something I have always loved to do is rearrange the furniture in my living space. I guess it gives me new perspectives. 

I am grateful to be able to use my experiences to help others as a coach - not by giving advice but to understand what they are really talking about and how they feel.

  • “Romy has a wonderful way of getting to the emotional truth of a situation. Her instinct is always to ask more questions and uncover hidden perspectives. This tenacity that has helped me find a stillness with my thoughts, to uncover my own truth. Free from judgement, Romy has enabled me to move forward and find my own path.”

    — Robin Carter-Stuart

  • “10 of the most insightful sessions of my life! I was stuck in a rut about what I am truly passionate about and over the course of 10 sessions, Romy has proceeded to help me find a new perspective on life and identify my values and goals. She is a great listener, knows exactly the right questions to ask and has the tools to find your direction. I felt very comfortable, safe and at ease with Romy and can highly recommend her style of coaching.”

    — Daniela Graham

  • "Before I met Romy, I was lost in an endless turmoil of unproductive thoughts. I didn’t know what direction to follow anymore. With great professionalism, Romy helped me to get the perspective I needed. Patiently she echoed and redirected my concerns. Through her coaching, she supported me to understand their meaning, and suddenly they became productive. This process made me discover what I really want and most importantly why. I finally feel at peace with my choices. Romy’s coaching shone a light on the path I want to follow. It has been a life-changing experience and I recommend it to anyone who is lost in the dark."

    — Sandie